Can I challenge you to change?

How are you today?


Hah … exactly … but who wants to admit that we aren’t able to change the situation? … no, we keep on trying and trying and trying … wasting our energy that we need so much more for other, more important things in our lives …


Let’s give it just one more try? Shall we? …


How may tries do we need? … until we realise that surrender is the only way … well, that depends on your pain threshold … right?
If we can’t get over the obstacle … why not go around it … by changing ourselves … changing our attitude … starting with the proverbial woman in the mirror …


Want to bounce into the wall more more time? … just to be sure it isn’t working? .. correct … you can hear, I speak from experience … I am kind of an expert in this … until I ran out of energy and just couldn’t take it anymore … then I had to change … I had no other option …


And now? … well, it helps to take a real close look into the mirror and ask why we want this situation (that obviously isn’t working) so desperately to work … what do we loose if we let go? … and what do we gain by letting go? … what if it works out better if we change … and what if this situation is occurring again and again and again, because we should change … for the better of us … this is the lesson … this is the way of growth … this is how we evolve … running against the wall until we realise there is a better way …


So I challenge you to change yourself, next time you are discontent about a situation … angry about an outcome … frustrated about an incident … and on and on and on …


How? … again, start asking yourself … or contemplating … or meditating on … what’s in it for me if I keep doing this? … and what’s in it for me if I start changing?


You will be surprised … your meditation will provide the answer … I bet … challenge accepted?


Let me know.


Have an awesome day.
Lots of Love, Sandra … 🌸

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