When everything has left you, you are alone. When you´ve left everything behind, there´s solitude. – Alfred Polgar
We sometimes feel lonely … some for a short time, some for a longer time … then we may feel the need for somebody to complete us … but is that really possible?
Many of us know we can feel very lonely even with people around us … so this is no guarantee.
When you are alone … do you feel comfortable? … with yourself? …
You see … when you feel comfortable in your own company, then you realise, you never really are alone … we all never are alone … we all are connected … but you have to let other people in … so how can you feel lonely with all those people around you? … every day …
But you do – you say?
Well, sometimes we have to go into solitude … to find ourselves … where else would you find yourself. And if we don’t do by choice … solitude will be brought to us …
But why do I have to feel alone?
In the silence, in the being alone … this is where you can find your true self, where you can hear your inner voice, your intuition … it may take some time … but it is there … your inner voice is always there … 😉 … but to hear it and to find yourself … you need to go within … to that place of silence and solitude.
Do you know the Tarot?
Do you know the card The Hermit?
If you have ever worked with it you probably know what I mean.
Have you ever realised that he carries a light? This light is why you go into silence and solitude … to find your light … your light inside … to show you the way … to make you find your purpose … your path in life … this is why the hermit has to go into his solitude … to find his true core, his inner light, his intrinsic motivation to carry on in this life … this is why solitude can be a gift … it is your chance to find yourself … your path … your mission in this life …
So if you are not willing to go within on your own … your body will show you the way … be it through exhaustion, burn out or depression … your body will show you the way … this is why I would love you to find your light all by yourself before your body takes over … listen to your inner voice … listen to the gentle hints your body is giving you … enjoy the solitude and appreciate all that it is giving you … which is sooooo much … so much … so much more than any other company can give you …
Because YOU are giving it to YOU … you all alone … YOU will solve all YOUR riddles … YOU will discover YOUR path … you don’t need anybody else to complete you … you already are … and you always have been … you just don’t know yet … but you can feel it … the need to complete yourself … this is why you feel alone … you know that there is more in you … you just haven’t found it – yet …
Enjoy the solitude … and listen … and celebrate … and enjoy … you are so much more than you can imagine now … but you will find it … inside of you … stop looking outside … this is not where you will find it …
All the light and love you need is already there … inside of you … waiting for you to discover and live it … 😉
Happy finding
And Lot’s of Love
Sandra …<3